\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga ato pamjet q\u00eb duken sikur sfidojn\u00eb ligjet e natyr\u00ebs, por n\u00eb fund zbulojn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb padiskutueshme: kujdesi p\u00ebr zemr\u00ebn nuk k\u00ebrkon p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebri dhe as ngjashm\u00ebri, por thjesht prani, sipas \u201cLa Stampa\u201d.<\/p>\n
Lidhja mes gomarit, Ettore dhe maces, Sghenghi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mrekulli durimi dhe dridhjesh t\u00eb heshtura dhe ka fuqin\u00eb t\u00eb ngroh\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e kujtdo q\u00eb i sheh.<\/p>\n
Historia<\/strong><\/p>\n Ettore \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gomar nd\u00ebrsa Sghenghi \u00ebsht\u011b nj\u00eb kotele me aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb kufizuara.<\/p>\n Ajo vuan nga ataksia cerebelare: truri i saj i vog\u00ebl (cerebelumi) nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zhvilluar plot\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e destinuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb dridhje t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme.<\/p>\n B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gjendje neurologjike q\u00eb ndikon n\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb koordinuar l\u00ebvizjet; nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ngjit\u00ebse dhe, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, me kujdesin e duhur dhe nj\u00eb dashuri jet\u00ebgjat\u00eb, kotelja mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb normale.<\/p>\n Ettore dhe Sghenghi jan\u00eb bashk\u00ebbanues: jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn sht\u00ebpi-ferm\u00eb dhe q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb miq t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb, p\u00ebrtej dallimit t\u00eb rac\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebrmas\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Gjiganti i dashur dhe kotelja e brisht\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Gomari, shpesh i etiketuar si kok\u00ebfort\u00eb dhe madje budalla, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nj\u00eb krijes\u00eb e pajisur me nj\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebri dhe empati t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme, dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak budalla (un\u00eb kam fatin t\u00eb kem tre n\u00eb familje dhe mund t\u00eb konfirmoj cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb empatis\u00eb dhe inteligjenc\u00ebs).<\/p>\n P\u00ebr nj\u00eb kotele q\u00eb jeton n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk pushon kurr\u00eb s\u00eb dridhuri, ku \u00e7do hap \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb dhe toka ku ec\u00ebn duket sikur e tradhton vazhdimisht, shpina e Ettore-s b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb spiranc\u00eb: nj\u00eb vend i sigurt, ku t\u00eb ndaloj\u00eb s\u00eb dridhuri dhe t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb.<\/p>\n Ettore dhe Eidos<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb fakt, Ettore ka n\u00eb \u201ccurriculum vitae-n\u201d e tij \u201cmama\u201d njer\u00ebzore t\u00eb ferm\u00ebs s\u00eb hareshme, p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb shoq\u00ebri kalit, Eidos, pas nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyrjeje n\u00eb sy, q\u00eb i shp\u00ebtoi jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Lidhja e tyre, e ngrohur nga rituale, ndarje momentesh dhe loj\u00ebra, \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr Eidos, dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer me po aq p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsi dhe reciprocitet.<\/p>\n Prania e p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrt, emocionalisht dometh\u00ebn\u00ebse dhe e q\u00ebndrueshme e Ettore n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e Eidos e ka shnd\u00ebrruar at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb nga rikuperimi, ngroht\u00ebsia te miq\u00ebsia, dhe nga dremitjet dhe vrapimet, nga solidaritet dhe q\u00ebndrimi n\u00eb nj\u00eb stall\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/p>\n Q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri n\u00eb kaos<\/strong><\/p>\n Lidhja q\u00eb Ettore ka krijuar me Sghenghi ndjek t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin hap t\u00eb ekuilibruar dhe sh\u00ebrues si ai i m\u00ebparshmi, ai me Eidos.<\/p>\n Ettore \u00ebsht\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm, i dashur dhe sjell me vete q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri dhe qet\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n Trupi i koteles l\u00ebkundet, nd\u00ebrsa ai i fuqishmi i gomarit mbetet i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n Ettore \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shk\u00ebmb, nj\u00eb port e sigurt ku \u201ce vogla\u201d mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetet pa frik\u00eb se do t\u00eb bjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n Ritmi i frym\u00ebmarrjes s\u00eb tij luan nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.<\/p>\n Gomer\u00ebt kan\u00eb nj\u00eb rrahje zemre m\u00eb t\u00eb ngadalt\u00eb se ajo e kuajve, jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nxit\u00ebs t\u00eb qet\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n P\u00ebr nj\u00eb kafsh\u00eb ataksike, sistemi nervor i s\u00eb cil\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb vazhdimisht i aktivizuar dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje alarmi t\u00eb p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm, t\u00eb sintonizohet me frym\u00ebmarrjen e qet\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb gjiganti t\u00eb mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me siguri nj\u00eb form\u00eb terapie.<\/p>\n Nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00eb \u201cpa fjal\u00eb\u201d, Ettore b\u00ebhet streh\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Kur do dik\u00eb, p\u00ebrmasat nuk kan\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, ashtu si\u00e7 nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi dallimi i rac\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Ettore, kur shikon shoqen e tij, kotelen, nuk sheh nj\u00eb paaft\u00ebsi; ai sheh Sghenghi-n e tij t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, nj\u00eb shpirt t\u00eb past\u00ebr q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pranin\u00eb e tij t\u00eb dashur.<\/p>\n Ai i ofron mbrojtjen e tij fizike dhe t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n B\u00ebhet mburoj\u00eb me gjith\u00eb trupin e tij dhe krijon rreth saj nj\u00eb perimet\u00ebr sigurie q\u00eb i lejon t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb e qet\u00eb dhe e mbrojtur.<\/p>\n Kur banor\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb t\u00eb ferm\u00ebs afrohen, Ettore, me kotelen mbi shpin\u00eb, l\u00ebviz p\u00ebr ta mbajtur larg nga tufa dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur q\u00eb t\u2019i ndodh\u00eb di\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb miq\u00ebsi t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme, rolet nd\u00ebrthuren.<\/p>\n Ettore frym\u00ebzohet nga forca e nj\u00eb krijese t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl dhe e vog\u00ebl q\u00eb nuk dor\u00ebzohet kurr\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa Sghenghi frym\u00ebzohet nga besimi i nj\u00eb gjiganti q\u00eb mund ta shtypte me nj\u00eb frym\u00eb, por q\u00eb zgjedh t\u00eb b\u00ebhet fole p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga ato pamjet q\u00eb duken sikur sfidojn\u00eb ligjet e natyr\u00ebs, por n\u00eb fund zbulojn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb padiskutueshme: kujdesi p\u00ebr zemr\u00ebn nuk k\u00ebrkon p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebri dhe as ngjashm\u00ebri, por thjesht prani, sipas \u201cLa Stampa\u201d. 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